Whenever you are public speaking at a networking event, your greatest challenge will be getting people to pay attention. While most will feign attention, very few actually listen intently. Some will even whisper to one anther while you talk.
We’ve covered some power openers in this blog, but I think the most powerful method is to FORCE them to pay full attention. How? Make them DO something. Here are some examples:
Home Inspector: Everybody take out a pen and piece of paper. Write down the top three reasons you think you would need a home inspection . . .
Eye doctor: Everybody stand up cover one eye and try to read the word on this card
Mortgage Broker: Everyone take a quick guess at how much a decrease of 1% can save you on a monthly mortgage of $200,000. Write down your answer.
Acupuncturist: Everyone make a fist. It’s very simple right? How many muscles were activated in making that fist? Write down your answer.
Attorney: Everybody grab a pen and write down what you think is the biggest legal liability you are likely to face in your life.
Financial Planner: Everybody fold your hands in front of you like this. Close your eyes and imagine what it would mean to your lifestyle to be completely debt free.
You get the idea – all these FORCE your audience to pay attention because it would be too conspicuous to whisper or zone while everyone else is following along. In this particular way, adults are like Kindergarten children in that having them physically do something forces them to mentally focus.
Use this trick with your networking presentations and your BNI Commercials. You will quickly recognize how easy it is to get everyone to focus on you. They can’t give you referrals if they don’t understand what you do, and they can’t understand what you do when they are not listening.
Let us know how these techniques work for you and please share suggestions you may have.
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